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Madonna-Guy Ritchie Divorce Watch: The Kids Are Going To Suffer Most
By CG | October 21, 2008
I feel sorry for the good citizens of New York City after hearing that Madonna is likely headed back to that city to raise her brood after she finishes her current tour. I also feel sorry for her children who will have to put up with the paparazzi day in and day out, almost 24/7, until the their parent’s divorce is finalized, and perhaps even beyond.
Being a sideshow in the “Madonna Circus” isn’t not go to bode well for her children as they get older, and that is exactly what is going to begin happening to them the moment Madonna pulls up stakes in the UK so that she can revel in the notoriety she has created for herself, and of course be closer to New York Yankee slugger Alex Rodriguez, a man who she claims she never had an affair with during his marriage, and while still married to Ritchie, a husband whom she says she never had sex with during the last 18 months of her wedded bliss. How many times has she said there was nothing wrong in her marriage during the past 18 months again. I guess we can take two things out of her claim that she didn’t have sex with her husband during the last year and a half of her marriage, those things being that she is a liar and that her husband found her too repulsive to mount her like the exercise bike she has become for many a man during her lifetime.
The swirl of controversy Madonna creates will be a detriment to her children.
Madonna lives for creating controversy, and once she is settled in New York City with her three children or Los Angeles for that matter, Madonna will thrive under all the publicity she can generate with her f**ked up mental and emotional state of mind, and her children will suffer the acts of what I would consider a very irresponsible and controlling mother.
Those poor children will have to put up with more than just a lack of privacy, and undoubtedly the headlines their mother likes to generate for the sake of staying at the top of her game will subject them to much more ridicule from their peers in the U.S. than in the UK. It is going to take more than the cult like Kabbalah faith to help them overcome the issues they are going to have to face as part of Madge’s baggage while she drags them around the U.S. chasing men and making a spectacle of herself.
The father isn’t much better.
Why their father isn’t fighting Madonna for custody is beyond me too, but I am going to assume for the moment that he doesn’t have want to take her on over child-custody issues because to put it quite simply Madonna is too cashed up to take on in such a dispute. The amount of financial resources at Madonna’s disposal is probably 10 times more than the financial resources Ritchie has and the entire child-custody fight, should Ritchie decide to Madonna on, would be very time consuming and harmful to the wellbeing of the children and their state of mind, but that shouldn’t stop Ritchie from looking out for the best interests of the children which I feel he is doing by allowing their mother to make them a sideshow in her circus. At the very least Ritchie should be demanding that certain conditions be met so that the children don’t become part of the “Madonna Circus.” Somehow I get the feeling though that he doesn’t care what happens to his children just as long as he doesn’t have to raise them, and that combined with the amount of time and money it would cost Ritchie is likely the motivating factor in allowing Madonna to move the kids halfway around the world.
Some father he is, putting his own wants and needs ahead of his children’s well-being just like Madonna. By the way, he can’t seriously think that his own son is better off with Madonna. No way. And what about his adopted child, does he truly believe that his best interests are at heart when Madonna, other than treating that son like a trophy cares one way or the other whether he is happy or not? She buys her children’s happiness and dare I say buys their love.
The kids will suffer.
Short of moving to the Outback of Australia, or some other remote place on earth, there isn’t going to be anywhere safe for Lourdes, David and Rocco to hide from the spectacle their whacked out mother creates everywhere she goes.
Having to live with Madonna would be a nightmare for anybody, let alone her own children, and the thought of her three children being dragged into the U.S so that “mommy” can shop in a bigger meat market and exploit the media to keep her name in the headlines so as to preserve her career isn’t exactly a sign that Madonna is looking to meet the needs of her children. She is doing exactly what a controlling person does, put the well-being of herself ahead of all others, including her own children. She obviously is a selfish woman.
Her kids will be forced to live in the shadow of her mother while she is out and about and you can bet that unless they travel with her, they will be left to be raised by nannies and mannies for most of their childhood. Far be it from Madonna to spend anymore time than she has to, and she’ll go out of her way to set a limit as to the amount of time she wants to spend with her children. Make no mistake about it, if Madonna thinks she should only be there for kids for an hour or two at most per day spent with her children, she will adjust her schedule to reflect that, just as long as she has more time for herself than her kids.
Parents of the Year they are not.
When all is said and done I don’t think either of them are fit to be parents, but at the end of the day they are, and while unlike many divorcing celebrities it doesn’t look like they are going to use their children as pawns in a bitter divorce, if only because they are putting their own agendas ahead of their children, but that doesn’t make them good parents by any stretch of the imagination. The least they could do at this point is to stop bagging each other via the media to save their children any further embarrassment and humiliation. They need to think of the children first and should stick to what the plan was when they said that they were going to keep the divorce quiet. So far they haven’t done that. The mudslinging has been coming from both sides. They need to grow up, and more importantly think of their children before dishing up all the dirt they shovelled between one another during their eight-year marriage.
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